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Welcome to Betterhelp. My name is Ajibola Harris. Just refer to me as "ABBY". I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the states of Oklahoma, Texas and Nevada. I graduated from the University of Oklahoma in 2007 and obtained a Master of Human Relations degree (MHR). In 2010, I obtained my first license to practice as a Licensed Professional counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma and started my career that same year. I worked with four counseling agencies over the course of eight years before relocating to Texas. The in-person therapy sessions were held at clients' homes, agency offices and schools.
In 2021, I became licensed to practice in Texas and had my first experience in online counseling which I really love since I can work from the comfort of my home. In 2023, I obtained another license to practice in Nevada. I have experience working with a wide array of clients from different cultural backgrounds dealing with various life challenges. I have had many years of fulfilling practice.
I am experienced in many counseling techniques and I can combine such techniques based on a client's present concerns and goals. I primarily use Cognitive Behavioral Technique (CBT) which involves a collaboration with clients to jointly come up with the best goals and solutions to alleviate their symptoms for a better quality of life. This technique focuses on changing how we think in a way that changes our emotions and behaviors. I also utilize Client-Centered Therapy that regards clients as experts on their lives and thus determine the direction and depth of therapy.
I am passionate about my job as a therapist and strive to establish a therapeutic relationship with clients that fosters a strong rapport, trust, comfortable environment, unconditional positive regard, respect, dignity and compassion.
As a non-judgmental and open-minded listener, I approach the therapeutic relationship with acute sensitivity to multi/cross-cultural factors.
I believe that having a good connection with my clients helps facilitate effective counseling and provides the best outcome. My goal as a Counselor is to restore hope to those who have lost it and empower clients to develop healthy coping skills to enjoy life fully. I applaud your courage to seek help and I intend to support and work with you to achieve a more fulfilling life.
I have many years of experience in the following issues:
Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Anger management, Relationship issues, Family conflicts, LGBTQ issues, Addictions, Divorce & separation, Mood disorders, Unresolved grief issues, Self-esteem, Parenting, Trauma and abuse, Abandonment and loneliness, Codependency, PTSD, Phobias, OCD, ADHD, Women issues,
Clinical Approaches:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Client-Centered Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Family Systems Theory.
Additional areas of focus:Addictions, LGBT, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Coping with life changes, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Abandonment, Adoption and Foster Care, Aging and Geriatric Issues, Antisocial Personality, Attachment Issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Avoidant Personality, Blended Family Issues, Body Image, Chronic Pain Illness and Disability, Codependency, Commitment Issues, Communication Problems, Control Issues, Coping with Natural or Human-Caused Disaster, Dependent Personality, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Dissociation, Divorce and Separation, Domestic Violence, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, Emptiness, Family of Origin Issues, Family Problems, Fatherhood Issues, Fertility Issues, Forgiveness, Gender Dysphoria, Guilt and Shame, Immigration Issues, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Isolation / Loneliness, Jealousy, Life Purpose, Men's Issues, Midlife Crisis, Military and Veterans Issues, Money and Financial Issues, Mood Disorders, Multicultural Concerns, Narcissism, Obsessions, Compulsions, and OCD, Panic Disorder and Panic Attacks, Paranoia, Personality Disorders, Phobias, Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships, Postpartum Depression, Post-traumatic Stress, Pregnancy and Childbirth, Prejudice and Discrimination, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-Harm, Self-Love, Sex Addiction, Sexual Assault and Abuse, Sexual Dysfunction, Sexuality, Smoking/Vaping Cessation, Social Anxiety and Phobia, Traumatic Brain Injury, Women's Issues, Workplace Issues, Young Adult Issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Ajibola Harris. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Ive been using this platform for about a year and switched over from another therapist to Ms.Abby and so happy I did. She is super responsive and her availability is amazing. She is very nice and attentive. Love her !
Written on Jan 26, 2024 after therapy with Ajibola for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She is very knowledgeable!
Written on Jan 24, 2024 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Terrific mental health professional. Glad she is affordable and actively engaged. BetterHelp assigned an exceptional specialist! Thank you!
Written on Dec 19, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Ajibola has helped me process and gain confidence in my life. She has given me tools to help not only myself but the relationships I have in my life.
Written on Nov 05, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 8 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, coachi
Ms. Harris has really made a difference in my life by illustrating what I need to do to make a difference and to be happy. Thank you
Written on Jul 27, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, and anger management
I felt listened to and understood. Ajibola is very easy to open up to and she gave me very good advice which I will utilize to navigate my relationship.
Written on Jun 29, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
I feel that Ajibola Harris meets people where they are. She listens without any form of judgement, responds in a timely manner and sends helpful information.
Written on Mar 26, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
She is very understanding and listen well.
Written on Mar 16, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Great therapist. Very kind, caring, knowledgeable, and helpful.
Written on Jan 25, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and anger management
She is very attentive to what is said. She also tries to ensure that what she says is coming across in an understanding way. She is considerate of my needs.
Written on Jan 24, 2023 after therapy with Ajibola for 7 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Ajibola Harris has helped me turn my emotions around and learn how to train myself to be a better person on how I go about looking at life. I would highly recommend her to anyone that needs to hear the truth about how they feel and how it affects their day to day life. Patient, sweet, bold, and wise.
Written on Dec 13, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, coachi
Abby was lovely to speak with, she was very understanding of my feelings and gave me great advise.
Written on Dec 05, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, self esteem, and anger management
Abby gave me great guidance and practices that helped with my mental stress. I am in a much better mental health now.
Written on Nov 24, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, anger management, and career difficulties
I’m so happy I matched with Miss Harris, she takes the time to listen to my concerns while also challenging my thinking. Her exercises have helped me greatly. She is so kind, encouraging, and helpful. I can not thank her enough.
Written on Oct 13, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, and self esteem
Abby was such an amazing therapist, she was a great listener and she expressed impeccable cultural awareness and sensitivity. As a Muslim woman, I struggled to find a female therapist that would be able to understand me and my background and assist me with my needs, however Abby met my standards and more. Highly recommend her even if you simply need a confidant to talk to.
Written on Oct 08, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Very great therapist, she’s very patient and understanding
Written on Aug 30, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
She is a lot more structured. I enjoy her therapy.
Written on Aug 22, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 months
She makes me feel heard, understood and she validated my concerns and helps me work through my issues in a healthy way
Written on Aug 22, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Ajibola made me feel comfortable right away. She is wise and comes with life and professional experience. I enjoy my one-on-one meetings with Ajibola.
Written on Jul 15, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Personable and caring
Written on Jul 12, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
She is awesome try her
Written on Jul 09, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Abby is very aware of how to address the situation quickly and break it down into the important parts. She has helped me feel more confident in my decisions and life, and it is wonderful to have a mental health provider in my corner.
Written on Jul 06, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Wonderful expertise and careful understanding.
Written on Jun 25, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 1 month on issues concerning family conflicts, and anger management
Thank you
Written on Jun 13, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, career difficulties, and coaching
With this being my first experience with therapy Ms. Harris made it very comfortable for me. I’m able to express myself freely and she gives very clear communication and helps me navigate my feelings and gives constructive solutions to issues that are presented
Written on Jun 12, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, and self esteem
Mrs.Harris is very kind. She allows to to express yourself and is good at asking questions to make you think about your situation and help understand it and yourself better. She is very patient as well and helps you focus on finding solutions to build a better future for yourself.
Written on Jun 10, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She is aware of the needs and challenges of the elderly.
Written on May 10, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and coping with life changes
Great so far :)
Written on May 10, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd
Abby helped me by listening and then suggesting a few things to try. She gave me a few one liners that stayed with me when I was not in session. I appreciated her help and it was only a few times.
Written on May 09, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning self esteem, relationship issues, and coping with life changes
She is great
Written on Apr 15, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
What can I say? Abby was a great start in my journey of healing anger. She is friendly, easy to talk to and provides the right tools for getting a grasp on what to do with your anger. I found myself using her advice and being successful. I only changed therapists to address passed trauma, otherwise I would have stayed.
Written on Mar 22, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue
Miss Abby was amazing! She gave me the boost I needed.
Written on Mar 21, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 1 week on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and coaching
I appreciate Mrs. Harris' straight forward manner and assessment. I also enjoy the practical application aspect of her treatment plans, as I've had therapists in the past who were heavy on talk, light on action. I feel with Mrs. Harris' guidance I will meet some of the goals I'm beginning to identify.
Written on Mar 03, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks
She has been so through and content with her help that I feel confident in being my self and enjoying the moment! Truly a wonderful person!
Written on Feb 17, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Abiodun is very pleasant to work with and also down to earth. She asks the hard questions that help me to think through things and also shares a perspective to bounce things and situations around with that I haven't considered. She's given some very great items for me to look at.
Written on Feb 03, 2022 after therapy with Ajibola for 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues
I really am glad that I was matched Abiodun Harris. I have gone to a therapist before and this session felt different. She started with the source of my issues and we worked together to sort everything out. She is a great listener and very encouraging and extremely supportive. She challenges me to to examine my mindset regarding issues that have been bothering me for a really long time. I couldn't have asked for a better therapist.
Written on Dec 27, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Abby was a help to me. She listened and pointed me to good resources. She asked good questions which prompted deeper discussions. It was a help to me also that Abby has faith in God. That was important to me as well.
Written on Nov 05, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Abiodun strives to understand every detail but also listens to the whole, She provides helpful information and worksheets to use when I face difficult situations similar to what we discuss. In speaking with her, my feelings feel validated and understood which then makes me feel more comfortable to continue opening up,
Written on Oct 29, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
In my short time with Abby I really feel like BetterHelp did an amazing job at matching me with a counselor who is more then qualified for my needs. I appreciated her gentle honesty and I feel safe opening up and processing with Abby as we continue to work together.
Written on Oct 06, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
When I first started my session with her, I was so nervous. She makes you feel so comfortable with yourself and just talk to her like she’s your friend. I knew she was the therapist for me because she’s compassionate, understanding, sweet, and has a great sense of humor. She has helped me gotten over almost all of my biggest problems in 2 months that I have been dealing with for years. She is seriously an amazing woman, and I just want everyone to know that! I just want to say thank you so much to her, and she has been the best person to help me.
Written on Sep 16, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue
I love Abby’s positive energy and enthusiasm. I like that she shoots straight with me and also makes me work on things. I feel very encouraged and supported.
Written on Aug 30, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, anger management, and adhd
A very good conselor. However, with 30 min session, it is just too short.
Written on Aug 16, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and adhd
She is attentive and kind and I feel safe and heard when speaking with/to her
Written on Jul 19, 2021 after therapy with Ajibola for 2 weeks
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